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How to Find the Stillness through Breathing

10/20/2015

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The study of A Course in Miracles is a study like no other. For me, it requires reaching a deep stillness of mind so I can truly absorb its teaching. Then, as learning each new idea the Course presents becomes less important, I find I need an even deeper stillness that opens me for a direct experience to hear the Voice for God.

A few years ago I spent time at a Buddhist center in Florida. One of the teachers there introduced me to a way for reaching deep states of stillness. It's known as Yoga Nidra. I'd like to share the meditative aspect of it with you in the event you find it helpful for reaching deep  stillness as you meditate on the Course lessons.

The teacher was a cool guy who went by the nickname “CK.” While the principal guru, Amrit Desai, "Gurudev," dressed in white, as did most of his followers, CK (short for Chandrakant) dressed in black. I don't know why, but of course it doesn't matter.
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Here's what he taught me that has helped me reach deep levels of meditation, which in turn helps me better KNOW the lessons of the Course.

This is about a breathing technique. After you've found a comfortable position, sitting or lying down, do this:
  • Take a breath in through your nose. When your lungs are comfortably full, hold that breath for a count of three to five seconds. Don't hold it so long it becomes uncomfortable. Just hold it until you're moved to release it. You don't really need to “count” three to five seconds. You might use your heartbeats to count…or you might simply let the pause happen on its own. Simply let your inhale hold itself for a moment. 
  • As you release that breath, let it go through pursed lips. Imagine you are exhaling through a straw that restricts your out-flowing breath just a bit. A straw, or your pursed lips, restrict the speed of your exhale. Let it out slowly, through your lips. Maybe it takes ten or twelve seconds to exhale.
  • Then, at the end of that exhale, simply relax before beginning the next inhale. Relax for a count of three to five, and don't inhale again during that count. Relax after you've exhaled in a way that feels comfortable. Again, there's no need to count. Relax into allowing yourself to sit at the “bottom” of your breath once the air is expelled from your lungs. No hurry. No pressure. Just be with the stillness of sitting without breathing for a moment.
  • You'll find that your body is perfectly oxygenated. The little pauses at the top and bottom of each breath won't leave you feeling short of breath. Practice this technique of breathing in and out with a pause at the top and bottom of each breath for a few cycles. Let it happen.
  • As you repeat this process, you may notice the pause at the end of the inhale, and especially the pause when you've finished exhaling, brings you to a state of stillness. A state of “no mind.” A quietness. Those three to five second pauses create a “space” where the mind rests without chattering.
  • Just relax and notice the stillness at the top and bottom of breathing. Notice how the chatter stops. You won't need to think about it. You'll simply experience a stillness, a quietness of mind. 

As you continue this breathing technique you may find the “no mind” state begins to expand. Just let it happen as it will.

I don't know why this works; why I find myself in stillness at the top of each inhale and the bottom of each exhale. I haven't tried to figure it out. It works. That's all I need to know. 

This breathing practice brings me to the state of mind Lesson 189, paragraph 7, asks us to find. Or, as Kathryn, our Monday night ACIM study group leader said, it's the state of a newborn who knows not who he or she is; knows nothing. Is open. A blank slate.

It's a perfect place to let the Voice for God and God Himself enter.

I hope you find this helpful.
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Peace and Love, my friends.

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How Did Burger King Manage to Hire an Angel at Their Port Saint Lucie, FL Store?

10/10/2015

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I think she might have been an angel—the young woman who handed me my lunch at the Burger King drive-thru today. She was filled with happy energy. Smiling. Genuinely cheerful. But she seemed to be possessed with much more than that. I imagined she was filled with Spirit. I wanted to get out of my car, go inside and hug her, thank her, bless her, love her. She was that delightful as she did her simple task. I said, “Thank you, dear,” instantly realizing those words couldn't begin to express the joy I felt at being in her presence. Yes, an angel. I was seeing her with the Eyes of God, I think.

I pulled into a parking spot with the top of my convertible down to enjoy the warm air and sunshine. A flood of happiness filled me; it washed down on me from…where? Mama Cass was singing Dream a Little Dream of Me on the radio as I ate my sandwich. That flood became a tsunami of Love. “Filled me” is completely inadequate to describe the feeling.

Here's what I suddenly realized:

We struggle with the Course, hoping but fearing that we'll somehow, sometime, some way reach the Atonement—that Knowing (with a capital “K”) that separation never happened, that all this really is a dream no different that the dreams we have at night when we sleep. We struggle because we fear that if we were to truly reach that place of Knowing, our world would disappear. That strikes terror into our hearts and minds.

But suddenly, everything became clear. That angel woman at Burger King, Mama Cass's sweet voice, the sun shining down on me, the blue sky, the breeze wafting across my body, the beauty of the palm trees swaying, the ibis birds scratching for food…all of those things (and more) moved me to tears of joy. God was showing me the Happy Dream. He was showing me that even this dream world is filled with His Love, and that I was being given an opportunity to experience it. Or, maybe it wasn't the dream world filled with Love, but my mind instead. The Mind that is what I Am.

This world we live in? It is a psycho planet if we choose to see it that way. But it can also be the home of the Happy Dream if we choose instead to see with the Eyes of God. That Love He showers down on us surpasses anything this world can offer, and yet, He can show us the beauty of this place we seem to inhabit and give us joy even while we seem to be bodies living here. I am so grateful for this moving experience today. Thank you, Father.

My friend Harrison pointed this out as he read Chapter 12, Part III of ACIM recently:

Your fear of attack is nothing compared to your fear of love. You have built your whole insane belief system because you think you would be helpless in God's Presence, and you would save yourself from His love because you think it would crush you into nothingness. You are afraid it would sweep you away from yourself and make you little. You think you have made a world which God would destroy; and by loving Him, which you do,you would throw this world away, which you would. Therefore, you have used the world to cover your love, and the deeper you go into the blackness of the ego's foundation, the closer you come to the love that is hidden there. And it is this that frightens you.

But God washed that fear away for me today. He showed me how I can see this world through His eyes, even though this world is a dream and God sees it not. He showed me the Happy Dream. I am so grateful.


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How to Live in a World with No Laws. No, It Ain't Anarchy.

10/6/2015

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My friend Kathryn, our local ACIM workshop leader, sent me rambling down a twisty but interesting pathway of thought and ideas last night. We were talking about how someone might cut us off in traffic, and how we might react. After all, we have laws against reckless and aggressive driving, against endangerment and countless other behaviors. All kinds of laws rule our behavior on the highways. But putting laws aside for a moment, if someone cuts me off in traffic, might I not get angry? Might I not react, cuss him out, or worse? 

 On the surface it might look like I had justifiable reason to become angry. Or even to seek revenge because that other driver did something clearly wrong. He needs to “pay” for his behavior, for his “sin.” I need to “get even.” At least that what one's ego might say. Yet, what really happened?

I don't know why a driver cuts another off. Maybe he's rushing to a hospital. Maybe he's playing loud music and is feeling aggressive. Maybe he's been drinking. But why he cuts me off really doesn't matter because he didn't do anything to me beyond what my ego wants to project on him. And, as the Course teaches, we can always make the choice between projecting our anger, attack and guilt, or extending love.

That discussion led me to the next few curious steps down that twisty path of ideas, which I shared with my wife as we discussed them this morning. It occurred to me that we probably have thousands, maybe hundreds of thousands, perhaps millions of laws in effect across our country. So do most other nations. They exist for just one reason: to regulate human behavior. I suppose law-making might have begun when Moses came down from the mountain with ten laws of conduct for his people to obey. 

Even the Golden Rule—do unto others as you would have them do unto you—is yet one more rule for human conduct. While it serves us with good guidance when in moments of doubt, fear or anger when our ego is challenged, it is still a rule much like other rules and laws. It exists to manage our conduct as people. 

Yet…in the Real World there is no need for laws, nor for judges and juries who find you “guilty.” For attorneys who defend you from "attack". For prisons where law breakers are incarcerated for their “sins.” 

Just imagine this…

Imagine a world powered by Love. In it, every person sees all others as the Holy Son of God they Are, in Truth and Reality. Just as God gives us His incomprehensible Love, just as He extends it to all Creation—imagine you too did that. 

You'd know that all other seeming people are One with you, one Holy Creation. You'd know that when you give you also receive. And that giving never spawns a sense of loss or sacrifice. For it is an extension of the Love you Are, and the more you extend the more you receive. How could it be any other way? For when we extend Love we extend it to ourselves, for we are all One.

Imagine, too, that what your ears and eyes and senses perceive in the world around you is a dream, an illusion, a false seeing. The world does not exist in Truth. Nor do bodies. God's Love is All that Is. Nothing else exists. 

The Course tells us many times that reaching that point of Knowing, which is the Atonement, is “simple.” But for us, seeming to walk around in bodies trying to understand how this can all be illusory dreams, it isn't easy. It may seem to take years to reach certain levels of understanding, although the Course also tells us that even time, just like the world, is an illusion. Lesson 132 reminds us that…

There is no world! This is the central thought the course attempts to teach. Not everyone is ready to accept it, and each one must go as far as he can let himself be led along the road to truth. He will return and go still farther, or perhaps step back a while and then return again.
 
Release the world! Your real creations wait for this release to give you fatherhood, not of illusions, but as God in truth. God shares His Fatherhood with you who are His Son, for He makes no distinctions in what is Himself and what is still Himself. What He creates is not apart from Him, and nowhere does the Father end, the Son begin as something separate from Him.

There is no world because it is a thought apart from God and made to separate the Father and the Son and break away a part of God Himself and thus destroy His wholeness. Can a world which comes from this idea be real? Can it be anywhere? Deny illusions, but accept the truth. Deny you are a shadow briefly laid upon a dying world. Release your mind, and you will look upon a world released.


Choose God's clear Vision over perception; giving over getting; Love over fear—and you'll find how it's possible to live in a world without laws.

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